Oh, and to add ....
Our AHR was at my DH's bar/restaurant (we closed the upstairs bar and rooftop deck to the public from 2-6pm) - so no cost for the location.
Live acoustic music - $300
Wine - I am a wine distributor, so I bought different wines (at cost) which saved $$. Spent $200ish.
Beer - We bought cases so we wouldn't run through the bar-stock ... but tapped into the bar stock before 6pm ... so probably $900 in beer.
Liquor - cash bar
Food - Low Country Boil - I think we ended up paying about $400 for that, b/c we paid actual cost, but it may have been more.
Cake - My Mom and I and some friends all made cupcakes and I made candy starfish molds and had a cupcake tower, so minimal cost for that. $35??
Decorations - I bought colored burlap to match some placemats and tablecloths that I got at Tuesday Morning and we re-used our DW centerpieces, with shells, sand and candles as decoration, along with our bouquets.
We had over 100 people.