Hi Jeni,
For clarification, I closed this thread yesterday b/c this topic has been discussed at length in numerous other threads, 2 of which were supplied above.
This forum is getting so large, that we really prefer not to have numerous threads discussing the same things, it gets too hard to keep everything in order. Please utilize the search function and add your thoughts to previous threads on the same subject. However, if you can't find anything discussing what your topic, feel free to create a new thread. Usually when the mod's see duplicate threads on the same subject, we merge them to keep the forum clean.