I don't think you are crazy, Vikki. I think that every girl is different, and every guy is different and then when you put them together as a couple, we are all completely different! I am not the jealous type, even though I have always had extreme self-confidence issues. So I've never cared about my guy going to a strip club. Shit, I think a female body is way hotter then a male body, so I get it. Not to say I agree with places that allow touching and more, but I get why it's enjoyable to them. I trust my husband to behave, if I didn't, I wouldn't be marrying him.
But alot of my friends aren't as calm as I am about it, and I have had friends that ripped their husbands out of strip clubs by their ears. So I really think it's such a personal thing, the way we react to it. It depends on US, and THEM and how we interact together as a couple. So if you aren't comfortable with it, let him know. It's as simple as that.