He decides YESTERDAY that he wants our marriage blessed by the church. This all came about cuz we are about to become god-parents to his niece Mia in February and the church told them it is a good thing we are going it BEFORE we get married, otherwise we wouldn't be allowed. They wouldn't recognize us since we weren't married in a church.
I dont mind having the marriage recognized by the church, cuz FI wants to raise our kids as catholics and that is fine, as long as he realizes that is his thing.
So now I am wondering, should we jsut do a ceremony at church the day of our AHR (July 12th)? That would give us just enough time, as long as the church is available, since we need to register 6 months before the wedding. Our AHR is already costing us a lot of money, and we are doing the whole sha-bang anyway, so how much more would having an extra ceremony in the church be? What are the extra added costs you can see? I can't only think of the fee/donation to the church and flowers. We will already have a photog, so maybe we would just extend his hours. Oh and transportation.
Any advice on what I should do here? I am trying not to be annoyed at him for bringing this up now...