Ok, it took my a while, but I think I finally combined my previous lists with what you all listed and I came up with a frigging long list! I have some done, lots in progress and even more to do!!!
DONE
Hotel/honeymoon booked
Wedding booked
Purchase plane tickets
Book MOH, FG and RB hotel (parents booking airfare)
My dress
BM dresses
STD’s sent
Bought Parasols
Bought Fans
Bought/made luggage tags
Photog for AHR booked (using resort photog for wedding)
Videographer contacted for AHR (might use him)
Register
Using resort photog in Jamaica
Hair flowers
Guest book
Buy starfish bouquet jewel
Website
Sand Ceremony vessles
Boarding Passes created
IN PROCESS
Boarding Passes need to be printed
Finish Sewing OOT Bags
Decide what I am making for OOT Bags (salt scrub, lip balm, sun soother, etc)
Buy the shit to make the stuff for in the OOT Bags
Buy other random stuff for OOT Bags
Need to make my veil (fabric bought, but haven't started it yet)
Choose & Order Rings
In contact with woman about wedding bands and BM gifts
Find Groom/GM's Attire
Find shoes for me (orange are hard to find!)
Ring bearer shell
Decorate Flowergirl bucket
Sand Ceremony Sand
Laser Hair Removal
Bridal party still needs to book
Finalize payments - March 3rd (I think)
Follow up with guests by phone to get a general head count
Get paperwork from Matt to send to Jamaica
TO DO
Lose frigging weight
Make appt for fittings
Confirm guestlist for Jamaica
Finalize menu for Jamaica - after rsvps
Figure out centerpieces for Jamaica, if reception
Figure out Reception/Cake/Flower info for wedding
Sister needs to make FG dresses
Need ring bearer clothes
List of pics for photogs
Hair and makeup
Petals for aisle
Make FI find out for sure who will actually be a GM!
My jewlery
Make veil
Groomsman gifts
Arches
Decide on Cake for Jamaica
Organize playlist for Jamaica
Steel Drums for Jamaica
Figure out hair
Figure out Reception Plans for Jamaica
Verify with TA transportaion from airport for us and guests
Plan welcome dinner
Plan beach wedding (chairs, petals, etc.)
Flower girl and ring bearer gifts
List of required photos for photogs
Table Numbers
Place Cards
Seating arrangements for Jamaica
Shell for ringbearer
Purchase clothing for Jamaica
Purchase clothing for Matt for Jamaica
Videographer for Jamaica
Go shopping with my parents for their clothing
Decide on Vows
Verify Bridal Party's Travel Arrangements
Verify marriage license is in order
Sand Ceremony wording
Dog sitter
Book hair/makup/spa
Microderm Abrasion Facial (great idea!)
Garter
Parents Gifts
Welcome Dinner
Postcards for OOT Bags
Decide on arch/canopy for ceremony
MIGHT DO
Write Welcome Letter
Wedding Day Timelines
BD photos
Plan excursions
AHR
Photog for AHR booked (using resort photog for wedding)
Videographer contacted for AHR (might use him)
Confirm guestlist
Finalize menu
Make table runners
Favors - lucky bamboo
Choose Cake
Choose flowers
List of pics for photogs
Hair and makeup
Organize playlist
Table Numbers
Place Cards
Seating arrangements