I agree with Rachel and Gionne also, I alwasy HATED the bouquet toss. I'd either hide in the bathroom or go smoke a cig while that was happening, cuz it was so embarrassing. I know some girls that would practically throw down thought o catch it. So I guess it's all a preference.
We are just not going to do it, I don't think we will do anything in it's place. Although one thing my mom mentioned to do at my AHR (since we have about 300 people there), was to have them announce the oldest woman from my family and the oldest man from Matt's family need to meet on the dance floor and dance. It wouldn't be announced like that, but use their names. Or something similar, to get hte families interacting. Since our families are both so large, it's going to be hard enough to talk to everyone in their own family let alone to meet the other side of the fam, so she was trying to think of a way to kinda force it. I don't really like the idea, but thought I could still play around with it for a bit.