The 20th is good for me so far. (I have 2 weddings in October, and I don't know when the showers are...) I am not sure if locations were really discussed that much yet. We have quite a few NY people that are interested in coming, so Cherry Hill might be a bit far. I don't really have any suggestions since I live an hour away from Philly now too. I guess if it isn't going to be close to Philly or Cherry Hill area, keeping it easy access to the turnpike or something would be easy. Honestly, I hav eno idea! hahahahaa, I suck at geography and maps, so I have no suggestions.