Quote: Originally Posted by Dez921714 He just left. Screaming about how he can't stand me, the dogs, the house adn wants out.
Threatened to take all the money out of our joint account, so I moved all but $280 into my account and changed my password (I don't want payments to bounce).
It's all BS and I don't deserve to put up with this. I think I'm done. I don't know how or what I'll say if/when he comes back but I can't keep putting myself through this. I love him, but is it worth it?
okay, this is getting ridiculous. He is abusing you emotionally and that is NOT okay in my book. He is hurting you and whether he realizes it or not, it isn't okay. I am sure you are really sad and upset, but you really have to think about yourself. There is a reason he is acting this way....you got great advice the past week or so. But I think the circumstances are changing. Maybe he really does want out....or maybe he is just stressed. No one knows but him. And,until he is man enough to sit down with you and talk about it, you'll never know.
Can you get away for a few days, maybe the weekend and go stay with relatives somewhere? I kow you probably don't want to spend money on a hotel after you have to pay for Roto-Ruter, but I think some time to clear your head will do you some good.
DO NOT worry about the people that have already booked their flights. I am sure they will understand! Think about yourself and only yourself for a little while.