I cant beleive how frustrated I am by the best man in our wedding. Every time we ask him to do anything for the wedding he bitches at Robin for picking him as the best man and says he doesnt want to help. He refuses to help with the Buck and Doe because "thats for girls to do" and he only wants to plan the bachelor party. The GM, BM and FI went tux shopping on Sunday and all he did was bitch about the price and about being in the wedding. I keep telling Robin to just tell him to f-off and not be in the wedding, but he thinks Im making too much out of it. Well, sorry its my day and all the BM can do is try and ruin it! My feelings are so hurt and I am really worried that he is going to ruin my day. I can see him not writing a speach, and he already said hes just gonna get drunk the whole time! I dont know what to do or what to say to Robin about this. I am one of the most easy going brides, but this is the one thing I am being bridezilla about. I couldnt even sleep last night because I kept worrying!!