dragonfly

I hear ya Jamy, but you know me, people I, and Everton, love first above all else. I am not saying wait to find out if he shows up on that day, I'm just saying wait a little longer, thats all. So many weddings result in hurt feelings and broken relationships and I just find it so sad. I just think she should let her fh decide how he wants to handle it, because it is really about him and his brother, ultimatiums are never a good thing, and it sounds as though her fh is having a difficult time giving his brother one. But hey what the hell do I know, because I don't know the strength of the relationships of these people to one another. I just really think the bottom line is respecting what the person who's family member is the one causing the problem wants. I may not like the decisions E makes in regards to his family (like mailing his aunt a $100.00 wedding gift, lol) but they are the people he loves and at the end of the day he must feel good about his choices in regards to them, not me. I was just trying to give another perspective, one maybe that hadn't been considered:) As always Jamy a pleasure examining with you the different perspectives and approaches to the various dilemmas life throws our way xoxoxox

Enjoy mine, it was the most fun we had during our wedding week! Remix for dragonfly_5 - Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

really pretty, love the colours

I love #2, I think it would be perfect.

I am going to go against the grain her, as I usually do when it comes to these situations. How important is it to your brother that if his brother can make it he stands up with him? If it is important then let it be, if he makes it great if he doesn't then adjustments can be made closer to the ceremony for his absences. You have to ask yourself will it dampen your fh day if his brother is at the ceremony, because he has figured out how to get there, but he is now just a guest I know that would upset me. Is it really worth your fh being upset about anything on the most important event in his life just so you have peace of mind 4 months before the wedding of how your wedding party will look? I think the important thing is our feelings for people, and not the picture perfect effect that so many of us envision, 20 years from now are we going to remember that we were highly organized in the preparation for our big day, or that we got married with the people who are most important to us surrounding us. I think you should just relax and let your fh hold on to the hope of his brother being an intregal part of your beautiful day. If it happens wonderful, if not what is truly the harm.

Christine, I am late to this as I've been busy with Nicole stuff lately, but omg she is beautiful! Congratulations I am so very thrilled for you xoxoxox

Happy anniversary to the greatest couple ever!!! Hope your having a wonderful time in JA!

Glenda, I am sooo happy for you, you are a beautiful bride!!!!!! Your stories are hilarious, it wouldn't have been a Miss Glenda wedding if it was lacking the excitement and humour that you are all about Congratulations to our latest Mrs.

Yayyyyyyyyyy

I firmly believe that if you don't want them at your wedding, don't invite them. I think if you invite people then you must fully expect that they may come. You have to know that you can afford to entertain them as your guests and that you will not be resentful of them being there (after all you did invite them), because you will be surprised at the people who make it and those who don't. Also as a guest I would hate to think I was invited somewhere I was not wanted, especially if I took the invitation in good faith (and why wouldn't I) and figured out a way to be able to come up with the money, take the time off of work, and use up precious vacation time.

Jenn I LOVE them, you look sooooo happy, wasn't it fun? Jenn you are such a pretty woman, what a lucky man you married:)

La la la la,la laaaa Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you Happy birthdayyyyy to Jaaamyyyy Happy birthday to you! Be happy this is a virtual birthday song because if it wasn't you really wouldn't want me to sing to you!! I would anyway though, so be happy of the miles between us!!! have the happiest of days, and celebrate you the way you deserve to be celebrated

I will always vote to keep on shopping for shoes, lol, and I beg to differ that a shoe problem is - too many:) I don't like the white one's, but I love the blue ones!

We did it hours before we left for our DW. It was important to me that after we said our vows at our DW we were actually going to be married, it wouldn't have felt right if we still had to do the legal part when we got home.

Just forget the camera is there and make out and grope your man for a couple of hours and I'm sure your photographer will capture one or two:) Our shoot was a little x-rated at times, I had to remind Everton more then once that we were on a public beach!!!