i feel your pain on this one! FIs parents are the same way.
i say just let it go. the more you think about it the more it's going to bother you, and honestly i bet she's one of those people that will change her opinion.
so i agree with christa, 100%!!
Quote: Originally Posted by Christa Yuck! I definitely think you should just forget it with her. If she comes to the wedding, AWESOME! If not, WHATEVER! I wouldn't push her involvement since she is already thrusting her judgement on you. You don't need that noise.
I totally respect your motivation to ask for her involvement...I just think you need to listen to what she's telling you & not try to change it. I think it would invite drama, and you don't need it!