Jessica

Brian and I actually took a break while we were engaged. He didn't really want a break but I needed it before I ended up resenting him. I didn't want to enter the marriage unhappy. We really had a break though.. as in break up. We went through a really hard time the year we were engaged but I think ultimately the break really benefited us a lot. I'm not going to lie, things still aren't perfect, but they did improve a lot. We still need to work everyday on our relationship. It was nice to take a step back from our relationship so I could focus on myself and not worry about "us." Now our break involved us seeing other people, but I know that's not the kind of break that's beneficial for everyone. It does suck to get stuck in a rut. I know you are getting married soon... but maybe a nice spa weekend away would help you? Or a mini-getaway with some friends?

Quote: Originally Posted by LadyP I told my 3 week old daughter that I hated her 2 hours before she died. ( because she would only stop crying for her father and everytime he gave her to me she cried. I could deal as a new mom in the house all alone while he worked.) I DID NOT MEAN IT. I tried to kill myself afterwards. 9 Please do not feel bad the power of prayer really does work I am past it and have a wonderful son Catherine- I hope I'm not being too nosey. I don't know if you talked about this before, but how did she die? I knew you had a daughter that died very young, but I never read how. SIDS? I went through a period when I would be so mad at Aiden and said a lot of not so nice things to him. It's really tough when you are so physically and mentally exhausted and this little baby won't stop crying no matter what you do. I've had a lot of days feeling like I was going crazy. It's especially hard when you're home all alone. It's very stressful. I think every new mom has been there and everyone knows you didn't mean it. You do have a wonderful son and you are a wonderful mother and I'm sure your daughter is is somewhere out there looking over all of you.

That's awesome Laura. I love Vegas. Brian wants that to be our vacation spot this year. You're going to have so much fun!

yeah, i've seen it. i actually have a friend that has two! all my friends are either pierced or tattooed. i've seen some crazy stuff!

i know. i was so looking forward to it and it wasn't on. i have no idea why. hopefully next week!

1- Name as it appears on birth certificate: Jessica April O---- 2- Date of birth: 3/14/78 3- Do you have any siblings? one younger brother 4- Color hair: Dark brown 5- Color eyes: Brown 6- Nationality: Mexican, Puerto Rican, Native American and French 7- Size shoe: 8.5 8- Favorite color: Black 9- Favorite article of cothing: jeans 10- Favorite book: Alice in Wonderland, The Stranger 11- Favorite food: grilled cheese with tomato 12- Future childs name: for a girl - either Madison or Chloe. For a boy - not sure! 13- What are your parent/s names: Pete and Delia 14- Who was your first crush: I have no idea! Can't remember 15- Who was the first boy to break your heart: Kenny. Ahh, I loved him so much! But now we're best friends, so I guess it's ok. 16- Favorite vacation: Paris 17- If you could change one thing about your body, what would it be? my boobs. 18- Have you ever had plastic surgery? not yet, but i plan to soon for #17 19- How tall are you? 5'8" 20- Favorite celebrity: don't really have one.

haha. that is awesome!

i voted for cherry hill just cause it's closer for me. i'm selfish i think i may be able to make this one!!!

sleep with as many hot guys as i could. i'm only joking. sort of. besides spending ime with Brian, Aiden, my family and friends, I have no idea. i do love to travel... and i love amusement parks. so maybe go on a tour of amusement parks around the world.

Quote: Originally Posted by xJuicyJx I hate when he straight out asks for "it" Haha! Most of the time Brian says "Wanna do it?" or "Let's do it." as nonchalantly as he would say "Where's the phone?" or something. Yeah, that's a real turn on.

on - light kisses on my neck off - when he grabs my boobs or my butt. it seriously annoys me.

People tend to get really weird when it comes to weddings. It's like a whole new personality emerges. Hope you guys work it out!

Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan she got them, but now they want kids. She didn't go very big. Her main concern was that they were different sizes. i just googled pictures! I WANT HER BOOBS!! i have the same body type as her, and am the same size she was before. i also have the whole uneven issues which is another motivation for wanting them done. Sorry Kat81. I hope I'm not hijacking your post with my own input/questions. This has just been my topic of conversation lately.

bre- did you get them behind your chest muscles? do you have any scarring from the incisions?

Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan I've been watching "my fair brady, maybe baby" and she was told the same thing. i havent watched this season. did she get implants?! i have to watch it now. i've been obsessed lately with the procedure. it sucks because i totally have the money to pay for them now sitting in my bank account taunting me. but i'm just scared of the baby factor.

Quote: Originally Posted by monicabrandon2008 My friend was told you can't breast feed with implants. i think it may depend on the type of implants, but i "know" several people who have implants and are able to breastfeed.

I don't know for sure. I just don't want to take any chances! Although someone told me that her surgeon told her not to bother getting implants if she was planning to have kids within the next 5 years. I think he implied it would be a waste and that she should wait until after if she was planning to have kids. I guess it makes sense because with implants, your breasts will still expand during pregnancy and when your breast milk comes in. I just wouldn't want to get them done, have another kid, and then have to head back to the table to make "repairs" so I was planning on investigating that a little more. Because if I could get them done sooner, I would love to. I still have to do more research.

Aww, that sucks. Good luck with the gym spa though! If I lived closer to your area I'd give you some business. I haven't really found a spa I like around me. I used to go to one in New Hope, PA.But since moving further south, that's just way too far.

I actually am planning on getting a boob job in the next two years. I'm so freaking excited. DH finally agreed to it as well. I've never been one for cosemetic surgery, but this is something I have recently decided I wanted (my boobs kind of look different after having a baby, and I'm less than happy with them). I asked about this recently and recieved some really helpful advice from the girls on here. I wish I could get them done sooner, but I'm going to wait until we have baby #2 as to not "ruin" the investment. I've already picked out the boobs I want (in terms of size). Well as of right now! I may have to scope out a few more racks before making my final choice. When do you think you'll get it done? You'll have to tell me how it goes!

I'm in burlington county too!!!! I don't have any recs sorry, just excited that we live in the same county.

she's a cutie!

good luck!!!! i hope you guys get it.

i think open marriages are fine if that's what both people want. as for me, umm, i'm super jealous. 'nuff said.

SOOO freaking cute. I love when little boys dress up. They are so adorable. And I love those old navy sandals. I wanted to get some fir Aiden, but they didn't have any that small

ohh, i want to attempt to come this time. i also vote for april and cherry hill would be awesome if that works for everyone else!