Quote: Originally Posted by Tlseege I voted to stop thinking. Being in the same position as you, every time I talk about wanting to get married I think it pushes him further from the decision. I think he feels as though I'm pressuring him and he might not be making the decision, but simply going with what I want. I think it's very important for the man to be fully prepared when they enter into marriage because as the other ladies have said, if there are problems now, there will be problems when you are married. And that's not just relationship wise, but money too. Yes, there are some breaks when you are legally married, but expenses will come up that you guys will have to deal with as a couple. And if either person has bad credit, the other inherits it... which could cause more problems.
I think it's just really important that he knows that you love him with everything you have and that you do, someday (preferably sooner) want to be married to him. But, that you understand it is the biggest decision in his life and he shouldn't be pressured into it.
The ring will come. Whether it be cracker jack or "Holy Crap!" i would have to agree here because i am in the same bOAT AS BOTH BUT IT WILL COME...AND I HAVE BEEN LEARNING TO TRUST HIM.....AND TRUST WHAT YOU HAVE......REALLY TRUST IT...