Quote: Originally Posted by michelle08 Hi ladies! okay so for some reason I have been putting off going to look for dresses. Partly because I am just so busy w/ work and school and family issues that I don't have free time. The other part if because I just am not motivated. The thought of going does not interest me in the least?
So this weekend I was up visiting my mom and friends and I decided to stop in this boutique up there. First of all, they had some pretty ugly dresses and i can't make decisions to save my life.
So I found only 4 that I was willing to even try on and the whole time I just felt wierd like it just wasn't natural to me. Plus I felt fat and uncomfortable and just not feeling the whole thing.
Is this totally abnormal? Has anyone else gone through this? I never have been one to think about my wedding day or care about my dress and I knew that my dress wasn't a big deal to me, but I just really hate the idea of having to go, try them on, look through those crammed racks and try and tell myself that I like a certain dress when really i just feel like a fat blob!
HELP!!!! you are not a fat blob do not be so hard on yourself.......i would look at dresses on line and keep anopen mind and just have fun....really i thought the same thing but beleive me you will know when you find it and it will be amazing i promise you...you will look beautiful.....good luck and forget about today...start new and look up some dresses and have them help you good luck girl and no being mean to yourself..............