Quote: Originally Posted by MikkiStreak I agree--- if you feel inclined toward counseling, do it now instead of waiting.
I think people tend to overlook the beginning of problems or just ignore them, thinking it will go away. On a different note, but same concept--- if you ask someone who has had an affair in their marriage, they'll tell you the marriage didn't fail the moment they slept with someone else; It started to fail the moment one person felt vulnerable and said yes to an offer of coffee and talking when they were asked by someone they were attracted to.
If that makes sense----
Yes is does make alot of sense. yes we argue more now that the 1000years I have known him. Break up for 3 seconds and back together. But it really scares me because we NEVER fight.
My situation is different because he was once married and all they did was fight and he might be asking himself is this where we are headed.
I STILL SAY. . ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR. we love each other and after that last word is said we talk adn work it out. give it time.