Welcome Jen!
I got married in April in RM and the weather was absolutely perfect! You'll love it! There are SO many resorts though! My biggest suggestion would be to write a list of all the things you and Joel NEED/WANT at your wedding. Do you want it to be a large or small resort? Children allowed? Beach or garden wedding? Private reception or is public okay? Do you want a gazebo? What is your budget, not only for yourselves, but for your guests?
Once you gather a bunch of information like that, it'll be a LOT easier to narrow down the resorts.
Good luck!