Welcome! Where in Tulum. I'm planning on getting married (someday!) near Tulum at the Gran Bahia. I know we also have some brides (and grooms) from Dreams Tulum.
Yeah, I wouldn't ask her to be in the wedding either. Especially since she lives out of state and you guys haven't been friends for awhile... after her wedding will she slip off the radar again?
I think the honor of bridesmaid should be held for those who will be there through thick and thin no matter what.
Welcome! There are so many destinations to choose from, I'm sure you'll find one perfect for you and your FI. Also, don't necessarily rule out Cancun. Dreams Cancun is not like most other hotels. It doesn't have the spring break atmosphere that most do.
OK, first off, your dress looks amazing! Very pretty!
Second... I agree with Tammy. Call the secretary of state and see what you need. Every state handles it differently... and in Tammy's case, every worker for the state handles it differently!
Given, the Novo is pretty cool. Maybe he wants to get your feelings on the ring, and then he'll have a designer make one similar to it for less money. That would be awesome!