Quote: Originally Posted by Julesr You have a good point, but I think that this is the only time its going to happen, and if I can't trust him, why am I marrying him. I would rather find out something now, before we got married than after I have been screwed around by many asshole men in the past and this is the only man I would allow to go see naked women dancing around, and maybe even on his lap, cause I know he would NEVER do anything. And, I have warned him many many times that if he cheated on me, I would leave him as soon as I found out and take him for all he is worth. I scared him off of cheating. lol Ya, I agree with Glenda. It's not about not trusting him though -I trust Aaron and I don't think he's gonna mount some topless chick just because she's giving him a lapdance.. but Glenda said it perfectly. Why would it suddenly be ok under these circumstances to have some other random chick shake her boobs in my fiances face? It wouldn't be ok any other time, so why now?