I agree - moving in is a HUGE step - and one of the hardest parts (IMO). It's making all kinds of adjustments to make two people coordinate better together. While I agree you should pick your battles, I also think keeping everything in is a spell for disaster. If something is bothering you - say the fact that he doesn't do the dishes is driving you mad - talk to him about it, and be prepared to negotiate. He might not see things the way you do, but that's no reason to fight. And just because you say "I do", it doesn't mean that fixes all of the problems you had before the wedding. If you don't work things out now, they don't just fix themselves. Don't bottle it up - just talk with him, a good, honest talk, not a fight.