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Quote: Originally Posted by MiekoD I already have a dress and veil. I do need shoes though. I've been reading some posts about wedding shoes...would it be difficult to wear heels in sand? Ya, I probably wouldn't wear heals in the sand - depending on the height of the heal it can be pretty tough! Plus, the ladies wearing the higher heals look like they're doing a 'horse walk' because of the difficulty. A kitten heal (that's what the really low heals are called, right?) would probably be ok though!

Quote: Originally Posted by Cabo Wedding Coordinator You can start like Anny said one month before little by little to get a nice, healthy, natural tan. That's exactly what I do. I burn so easily, so I go a few times a week for around 5 minutes each time. I don't care if I'm so tanned that I look like a new race... I just don't want to burn. I also talked to the owner of the tanning salon about the right kinds of lotions to use. I needed more of a moisturizor than an enhancer. They have all types of different lotions for the type of tan you're after and your skin type.

Maybe I should just quickly say that it's not that he'll refuse to go or anything, I know that no matter what destination I chose, he'll go and have a great time. For the time being, however... he's trying to convince me on other locations! Just last night he was pushing a Disney wedding, which would awesome, but waaaay too expensive for our guests. He's really stubborn (which is where I got it from!), and he's pretty much just made up his mind about Mexico, so when we're there I wanted to drag him out and show him that WHY I am choosing Mexico. We've already made plans to go to Xel-Ha (sp?), but I'd really love some other places too... But thanks for the support guys!

When I was really young we had a poor experience in Mexico, and ever since then my dad really doesn't want to go back. He's got it implanted in his brain that once we step foot in Mexico we'll be bombarded by starving mothers with young children begging for money. When we were there (about 15 years ago) we only stayed during the day, and hi-tailed it back to Cali once he saw what he saw. So, in about a week we're going to the Riviera Maya (EDR) and when I told my dad that I've arranged for some site visits he says he just wants to stay in his beach chair and not go anywhere!! I really want to convince him that Mexico is worth seeing! The thing is, my brother will agree with anything my dad says - so since my dad doesn't like the idea of my wedding in Mexico, my brother complains about it too! If I can convince my dad, I'll convince my brother too.. Does anyone have any really great tours, snorkeling sites, markets, or advice in general that can help me convince my dad (and thus my brother too)?

I actually don't like any of the last three you posted (sorry!), but I LOVE the first two - either one, I think they both look great!!

Quote: Originally Posted by mgreen I think if I switch up some swim suits I should be able to avoid major tan lines. i just care about tan lines in my wedding dress. Ya, there's nothing like looking at a picture of a bride and noticing her tan lines w/her strapless dress right away! Yikes! I feel slightly the same about a BM with tan lines - is it fair to ask her to tan ahead of time so this doesn't happen, or is that too bridezilla-ish?

Quote: Originally Posted by sheaa Then I thought I had my heart set on the El Dorado Royale.... but then I found out you can't swim at the beach. (And also found out there will be kids attending) I have talked with some travel agents about swimming there and they all said you can, but my friend had her honeymoon there, and said they didn't swim there at all. Sheaa, I'm going to Riviera Maya in just over a week and have read soooooo many different forums where they've complained about the rocky beaches or MASSIVE sand bags. On that side they have issues with that because of hurricane recovery. That's whats got me considering Cabo instead... not sure what its like there...

This is what the website calls them: "Mardi Gras Men's Solar Tan Thru Swimsuit" ... and the description... "Solar tan thru men's swimsuits are constructed with breathable material that won't confine you. " lol "This Solar tan thru men's bathing suit is a 1" side racer with built in front contour panel and a Brazil cut back. With a men's tan thru bathing suit, you'll look great and you can forget about tan lines!" Is it sad that I laugh my @ss off when I read that and look at the picture??!! Maybe it's just late.... lol

hahaha, mankinis... is that what they're really called?!! They are pretty funny though.

Wow Anny, 9.99 for the set of earrings and necklace?? That's amazing! Nice find! When it gets time to find accessories, I'll be asking for your help (need to find the dress first!).

Oooh, I really like that!! I wish I was colour savvy! That looks great. I'll vote when I see the lime green one (although I really like this one!!)

I'll third those comments - just let them know that they are not obligated to join, and I would even explain why... the same way you did to us!!

Quote: Originally Posted by akh we never even tried to find a "meaningful" date - but i kind of wish we would have! the date we have was just available. although it probably is pretty close to us being together for 4 years - we just never had a first date or anything to go by! When I asked my mom why she chose the date she did - well she said it was the only date available during her week off of school... but that's besides the point. She liked the idea of making an insignificant day special. I liked that idea too! Plus, now I get even more special days!!!

Thanks Tammy, I didn't even know that was there. That's quite handy!!

In Canada we have stamps that are always worth the going rate for a standard envelope (they're good forever) - do you not have those in the U.S.?? It's pretty new here... maybe its worth checking with your post office.

Ya... this is my mom and my matron of honour!! So if you have any really cool bachlorette party ideas, talk to her lol!!

Hey There!! Welcome to the forum! I haven't gotten married there, but I'm trying to arrange a site visit for two weeks from now at which time I'll be taking as many pictures as my camera can hold. I can show you what I have - but it won't be of a wedding. Have you been there before?

Ya - printing the labels is the easy part. Avery has a variety of sizes, and shapes to choose from. From there (in word) you select: Tools -> Letters and Mailings -> Envelopes and Labels You can select the size you chose in the chart there depending on the Avery code number. It's super easy.

Quote: Originally Posted by Tlseege I LOVE the fans! What does the front neckline of your dress look like. I do agree that perhaps the earrings and the necklace don't go together, but maybe you don't need a necklace? I was about to say the same... I personally think with most wedding dresses, the necklace makes it too busy. But I think if I didn't wear the necklace, I would probably wear the earrings. I guess it depends on what the front of the dress looks like...

Hey Andrea!! Welcome to the forum.

Wow, Kate... I completely agree - I'm ready to buy, arrange, and schedule everything right now - I haven't even sent out the save the dates yet!!

Lol... Melissa, I'm pretty sure that's black...

Wow, Jessalyn!!! You have inspired me, I LOOOOVE the way they look... and might have to copy your idea a bit!! I love the starfish when you open the box, what a neat touch. Did you have any inspiration - where did you get the idea for the setup? Anyways, amazing job!!

Lol, welcome Laura!! How much have you already planned... besides the date and location? How many people are actually attending? You're lucky to have been able to see your location beforehand - at least you have that! lol

Yay Lenita!! Congrats!! Enjoy every single moment, and hurry back to show us pictures. I can't wait to hear all about it.