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That's such a great idea!!!!

I'm so sorry this is happening. This is the last thing you need right now!! Let us know how it goes.

I'm sorry to hear that his car got stolen. How long ago was this? I'm so happy that I got back on track yesterday. I went for a run yesterday during lunch and last night I did my pilates tape. I also did my tape this morning. I'm feeling good. I can't believe that a month from TODAY I'll be getting married.

Happy Anniversary

Quote: Originally Posted by akh as a clarification, are we talking wills or living wills? isn't a living will what tells people how you wnat to be handled in terms of life support, etc. - not like a regular will which tells how to divide your assets, etc.? Definitions of living will on the Web: A legal document that expresses an individual’s decision on the use of artificial life support systems. Yes, a living will is a more detail of decisions of life support and medical decisions. A Will is just a simple Will that leaves your assets, kids, etc. to someone. A Power of Attorney gives a particular person the right to make any health care decision you may need in the event you are in a comma or something.

Quote: Originally Posted by Nini_Bride Ya - I'm not going through this entire thread just to see if this may have been brought up in the past! lol. I'm just wondering if anyone uses those big yoga balls? I've been thinking about it, and have heard that they're really great and super versatile to many different exercises, but I don't want to buy it and be disappointed and only use it once! Any tips/advice? Does anyone know of a website that gives good excersises with the ball? I've got one and I absolutely love it. Trust me you will like it because there are so many different exercises you can do with it....I'll look for some websites and let you know.

Quote: Originally Posted by lryates76 The day is not over. I wish I could go for a run at lunch. I sweat like a pig so no workout for me at lunch. I so wanted to stay in bed this morning, but I had a freight train snoring beside me, so there was no sense in staying! I know....I normally can't run during lunch since its gotten hot here. But today its not bad. We've got a steady breeze, its actually really nice. I can't wait to get out of the office and be outside for a while.

WOW!! I love it....

Congratulations Sarah!! Can't wait to see your pics. Have a wonderful honeymoon...

You look amazing!!!! Your pics are beautiful just like you!!! Can't wait to see more. Congratulations!!!

Congratulations!!! Can't wait to hear all about it

Quote: Originally Posted by JPMO Such a great topic! Many couples and families avoid this topic since it causes you to face the truth that we all must leave here one day. Prior to FI I was so put together so I have both a will and power of atty. statement in the event of an illness. I should really adjust this since FI isn't mentioned anywhere... Now here's the kicker! I have selected my dad, then brother to receive assets and make decisions. I really don't want to change that. I would rather have FI and father make a joint decision. Assets will be split according to what we had bfore and during marriage. Is that bad? Keep in mind that I am not an attorney and that all States differ with their laws and rules on this type of matter. Again I do recommend everyone calling an asking an attorney in their area all of general questions. I'm sure that you and your family have a great relationship and hope that they love and adore your FI. But one thing I must warn is that I've seen some of the best families fight over assets and decisions when a significant other passes. I think that it's a great idea that you want them to split the decision, but ultimately that may cause a huge problem. I would recommend to have your FI as your First Personnal Representative and then your Father as the Alternative. If you should pass before your FI and your father is still alive and they both know your wishes that they split any decision. Then I would hope that they do that without having that in papper work. Let me know if that makes any sense to you or helps in any way possible.

Okay, I was bad this morning. I couldn't pull my lazy a** out of the bed, so therefore I didn't do crap this morning. But I did bring my clothes to go for a running during lunch.

I had all 4 of mine taken out when I was 20. It wasn't that bad, promise. I guess it also depends on how well you handle pain. I hope everything goes well.

Quote: Originally Posted by mgreen good thread... I move in with FH tomorrow! AHHHH. i like writing down the list of stuff, good idea. Although my FH is a neat freak he is in the air force and I get in trouble when I clean the kitchen with a wet cloth and don't dry it afterwards ROFL. Pray for me hahahaha I'm sure you two will be fine!!! We are having a wonderful first week. Can't wait to hear details about how everything went.

I love that website...I've been looking for a flower, I'm going to order one from them.

I woke up this morning and did my pilates and went running!!! I'm feeling great!!! Maybe its because its Friday and probably has nothing to do with me working out...

That's great congratulations!

Quote: Originally Posted by Nini_Bride I don't have a regular will (dead will?!? lol) because I don't really own anything except a computer lol. And if "they" take that away, Aaron will be happy because he'll get to build another one anyways!!! As for a living will, I never thought of this before - ever. I guess I always thought any type of will isn't necessary unless you have a lot of stuff to give away, or you have kids! I have neither! Lesson learnt though, Aaron and I will talk this over when he's back! It doesn't matter if you don't own anything huge. Do you have any debt, credit cards? If so, when you pass away, you still owe that debt. Your estate will have to be probated in the Probate Court of your county. I highly recommend you get either a Living Will or a Will and Power of Attorney. A POA is almost the same as a Living Will. I think everyone should have this dicussion with their future husbands.

I know it is funny, but I figured that might help us out a little. He's pretty good about chores. I cook and he does the dishes most of the time without me asking. Sometimes I do them. He cleans the tiolets, because that's just one thing I can't stand doing.

Quote: Originally Posted by Susan101207 Should FI and I do this now, or wait until October when we are married? I don't know if revisions have to be made when you change marital status. Also, do you see an attorney for this? Do you just call one up and say you want to arrange a living will? Sorry, I really don't know much about this. You and your FI don't have to do one right away unless you want to. I already had one before me and him. It's not hard to make a revision to a Will, especially if all you are changing is your name. You need to look in your phone book and call a couple of attorneys and ask if they provide this type of service at their practice. Some may or may not. I would also ask about prices, because some charge more than others! One thing you will need to think about is if you and your future husband unfortunately pass away at the same time you need to have Alternate Personal Representative.

Have you ever laughed so hard that milk came out your nose? Yes. I've had milk, coke and beer. Let me say that beer is the worst! Have you ever been scuba diving? bunjee jumping? sky diving? No....but my FI and I are planning to go sky diving later this summer. Tell us three things about yourself the rest of the world doesn't know: 1. I currently have one tattoo. In the process of finding a design that both my FI and I love to get after we are married. 2. When I was little I had a heart murmer. 3. Everyone may have read this already, but I don't want to have children. Me or my FI. We really want to adopt. Haven't told our parents yet, but I am sure they will be understanding and supportive. What is the weirdest nickname you've ever been given from anyone? Lets see, I have alot of them. Carebare, KK (my 2 yr. old neice can't say my name), Big'en (long story). When was the last time you laughed so hard that you cried? Just last week at work. I can't remember exactly what happened but everyone in the office was laughing so hard that they were crying.

I strongly agree with this subject. My FI and I have already got our Wills together and signed. You should have Living will done or a Will & Power of Attorney. I work at a Law Firm and we do Wills. I promise it is so much easier to deal with when a person's loved one has passed away and they have a Will. Let me know if anyone has any questions, I would be glad to help out in any way possible.

Quote: Originally Posted by sanchez0014 After getting home and staining my patio furniture, preparing and cooking dinner and watching Grey's Anatomy, I actually got myself to go up to the gym and run 2 miles. I was a bit slow today but I am still extremely sore from this week being my first week to start up again and I went to a resistance class yesterday. I have to say that I am extremely proud of myself! That's great!!! If that was me, I would have just went to bed or something instead of going after watching Grey's and doing all that work. GREAT JOB

Well I moved this past weekend with my FI!!! So far everything has been great, but its only been a week. A week before I moved in with him, we both made a list of things that we knew of already that we think would bother each other, which wasn't a long one!!! But we had a wonderful talk about money, cleaning and personal space. It went very well. I will keep you posted on how it continues to go. Thanks to everyone for sharing their stories and support