Debs

I'm so sorry. About all I can say is welcome to the club A couple of things: MAKE sure you get a final diagnosis/second opinion. MAKE sure you guys talk it out. Chris has been very supportive of me and not laying any kind of guilt trip on me whatsoever (I have a friend who's husband almost left her because she couldn't get pregnant). Be clear about your options (AI, IVF, adoption etc), and the associated costs, so when you ARE ready, things are in place. Allow yourself time to grieve if you need to. This is something I have still to work on. Sure I put on a brave face (like telling friends/family "oh, we didn't want kids anyway" ) when this is really not how you are feeling. For example, it breaks my heart every time I see Chris with a baby, or our Goddaughter. He's so awesome with kids, it's really REALLY hard for me. I'm here if you need me hun, as we all are. I am thinking more and more that it really is a MIRACLE every time people get pregnant these days without help. SO many people I know are having problems.

ack! Halloween!? I didn't even have a pic of us holding hands! LOL

I don't think it has anything to do with what type of hotel you are booking at hun. To me, you are have made certain arrangements at a certain hotel. If people want to stray from that I say go for it, BUT, as you have made the arrangements for THAT hotel, they can ante up if they want to go elsewhere. That's totally how I feel and if my guests wanted to do the same thing that's exactly what I would say. If they can afford to go to a more expensive hotel then they sure as **** can afford the day pass to get to your wedding!

AMEN to that! I'm vintage '73 and most of that rings true for me. This is a crazy time to be alive in, that's for sure.

I don't care how good you are as a photog. That's rediculous! Seems if he doesn't get his act together, his business from this forum is going to dry up faster than the Sahara!

Quote: Originally Posted by Nrvsbride *Okay so I realize that I'm delusional and it will never work out that way, but the truth is that people tend to go along with whatever the majority of people are doing and if everyone starts to hear about the fee, I think they will cave in and stay at your resort. Glenda, the trick is getting everyone to follow that dialoge to a T! LOL I would say make the guest pay the day pass. Screw em!

oh, and for cool down, I love to listen to Relax, take it easy by MIKA

I'm always looking for good tunes for my workouts, trying to switch them up all the time for something different to break the monotony of the treadmill! Here's a sample of what I'm listening to these days... just a note, I mostly walk/fast walk on my treadmill.. the 'girls' don't like the bouncing and swinging of jogging Get the party started (remix) - Pink w/ Redman Ramalama bang bang - roisin murphy Beware of the Dog - Jamelia In my arms (tocadisco mix edit) - Mylo World hold on - Bob Sinclair And for the power bursts (to get the intervals going... best way to boost your workout... 30 seconds to a minute in between each song) Anything by the Chrystal Method (think blade Trinity soundtrack) I especially like Bloodrave and Weapons of mad distortion

We are going away for 2 weeks, and I'm thinking we might do this. First week with our guests, and then jet off to another locale for our second week... for a change of scenery more than anything! I hear secrets is really nice.

Mo, what a fantastic photo shoot! The pictures turned out awesome! It is making me want to do one!!!!!!!

LOL Anny, the colour one is your profile picture, but the B&W you are right, I saw on the FaceCrack!!

see... that's the one I was talkin about!!

It looks fantastic!! Way to go!!! YAY!

ya, that doesn't look natural. Look at Anny's pic. that's a cool pic.

oo love the graphic!! happy birthday girl!!!

So, all the cards are seperate? Or are they front-to-back? I love them!!

Awesome!!! YAY! My fave is the one with all the sand in the background. The contrast of colours is crazy cool. (#5927) Post some racy ones!! We won't tell!!

Thanks for the notes, Kelly! Lots to think about I guess. I will have to look at the gazebo location when I get down there I guess. Depending also on how many people end up coming with us, too. Still waiting for that review!!

Absolutely amazing!!! You used the resort photog for these? I'm sold!!!!

YAY! Another! Congrats!!

I love the simplicity of them. So well done

what a great idea, LOL

OOO, very cute!! I love them! Did you buy the paper in bulk? I can't make out the verse on the front, would you mind letting me know what you wrote?

Sorry, I don't have any pics of me with it on... the salon I was at wouldn't let me take pics! That's soooo stupid! I mean it's not like I'm going to try a dress on then go and have some one make it? DUMB!! I'm going back to order it in a week or so, I'll sneak my camera phone in and try and take some snaps

Quote: Originally Posted by foxytv Hey there! Congrats! (BTW -- you're leaving for DR on my bday!!). You're leaving on my birthday too!! HAHA!! July 18th baby! WOO! Congrats! Definately check out Debbie's forum, I'm on there too and there's TONS of info on DR.