Quote: Originally Posted by dragonfly We decided not too long ago that we were going to do our legal wedding before we leave. We decided for a couple of reasons, I have a friend, the pastor at sick kids, who I met when Nicole was in the hospital. This was the worst time of my life, and this man got me through it. I am not religious, don't even know if I believe in god, but he was at Nicole's hospital door everyday for 10 months, giving me hope. We have remained good friends, and he helped me weather my dad's death. I just knew he had to marry us. He is unable to come with us, so Everton and I decided that we were going to secretly, with our children, have a very intimate legal ceremony on Centre Island (he lives there, and it is where his church is), with the person who helped us get to the this place in our lives. After the ceremony we are going to have a picnic with the kids and then dinner, with just Everton and I, later in the evening. This just feels like the right thing to do. It brings us back to the beginning of our planning which was "let's just you, me, & the kids go to the Carribbean and get married," but now it's "lets just you, me, and the kids run to centre island and get married..." LOL Funny how life works out!
Kelly~
OMG Kelly, this brought tears to my eyes! So perfect.
E and you are meant to be together, you know it... very different from the first time.
Do you in some manner the detour was somehow meant, in some way, to happen to remind you of your father at that moment?
Not that E meant for you to end up there, but your dad is with you and you we going to do something very important in your life. No sure I am making sense.
Anyway...