Quote: Originally Posted by MikkiStreak I agree with Carrie---- it depends on how significant you view the courthouse ceremony.
I'm one of the opposite views on this tho---- most of the brides on here don't view the legal ceremony as their "real" wedding. I'm the opposite---- I look at the legal ceremony as the real wedding because to me, it's the epitome of what our wedding is supposed to be----- it's about us, and our commitment to each other; to me, our MX will be the celebration of our marriage for our family/friends, but the legal is about us and our marriage.
When we do our legal ceremony, we're planning on exchanging the rings and will continue wearing them. I think it's also something to ask Jeremy about tho too. I had never thought much about it, but Frank told me awhile back that he really wants to do the legal ceremony soon regardless of when the MX happens because he's anxious to wear his ring and be married. Girls get the engagement ring so everyone can visibly see they are getting ready to be married. But guys don't get that visible "status" until they get the ring on their finger at the wedding.
I think we share a very similar view. That is the day I will legally be his wife and I will be checking the little married box going forward.
Vows? Ack! Did not think about that. Don't think we will do that at the legal ceremony other than what the judge has us say.
I kind teared up during the 'I swear' speech just to get the license!
However, I think our anniversary will be the date in Mexico when we give our vows infront of family and friends on 2.2.2008 which will be the big celebration.
We really did want to have the entire process in Mexico, but then decided to do them here after looking into everything we had to go through.
Actually Jeremy is the one that asked about the rings and wearing them from then on!
Hey he gave me my engagement rigns and I couldn't wear it for two days so he could make the announcement in front of our families on Christmas Eve. So maybe we will exchange rings, but not wear them until Mexico... well... I don't know! Ack!