Quote: Originally Posted by 2bebridejamaica It's like a bad country music song.. Hah - sorry had to laugh but it's so true! I don't really have any advice to offer other than what the other girls said. It is good that you realize that this day is about yourself and Jay, not everyone else. It's totally understandable that you're hurt, that's OK. Stay strong and focus on the positives. That's one of the set backs in having a DW - not everyone can make it. Hope you start feeling better soon.... November will be here before you know it :0)