hey Jen, welcome to BDW.
Don't be overwhelmed, I remember how easy it is to get stressed about planning. But really just take it one step at a time. Find a place YOU are comfortable with going and go from there. Read some reviews on here and find the best resort that matches what YOU want. DW's are easy to let guests and family members pick your wedding but don't let that happen.... find something you think is suitable, keeping everyone in mind.