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My mom still says my teenage years were the worst for her because of all the worry ( I can tell you this, I had other girlfriends in similar situations. Most of us snapped out of it but a few never did and to this day are in messed up situations with bad people. I'm talking about girls whose parents didn't know where they were and didn't ask. No curfews, no rules, no advice, etc. I say that to say this - you are clearly an involved and concerned parent. I don't know where to draw the line so I know you are confused, but you may be doing all you can short of confining her which is unrealistic. People say it's bad to be your kid's friend but she is at a crucial age. You don't have to condone behavior you don't accept but I think preaching at her will distance her more, so just keep talking to her like you do. She will hear you even if she doesn't act on it right away. It's hard to be her age in 2007, just try to keep that in mind. Best wishes )

Thanks for the review! Sounds like all was well, maybe a few RIU issues but nothing that stopped a good time. I had a guest at the Buenaventura who liked it as well, the location is great as compared to RIU which is a little far removed. The pics I've seen are gorgeous...great work Robin (and you for looking goood...lol)!

Thanks guys. Outside of BDW, I've heard that Kauai is the most breathtaking. My mom's favorite is also the Big Island. I hear there are different climates all over the island and yes - less tourists. Keep em coming guys, Mrs. B & I want all of your input )

Uggh..teenage love. When I was 15-16(and didn't need a stupid bf) I was with a real loser. After meeting him once my parents said I couldn't see him again. I thought they were soooo mean, never imagined my parents knew what they were talking about. So, I started sneaking around to see him. This included sneaking out my bedroom window until I got caught. I had to keep my bedroom door open from then on so they could tell I didn't go out the window again. Then I started lying. Uh-huh.......I'm at my girlfriend's house, library, movies, all the classics. And I was with him. And I got caught a few times in those lies, but since they had to let me go to school I kept seeing this loser. Painfully long story short, I stopped being with him. And this is the tough part (and the part I dread if I have a daughter) - my parents did all the right things and were powerless to stop it. They drove me to school, picked me up, and stayed involved like so many parents don't. It was just a life lesson I had to go through, I learned things I still apply in my life just from dealing with his disfunctional self. In retrospect my parents did factor in my decision to stop seeing him. They raised me in a place of love and respect so I knew inside (but would never admit for some reason?) that I wasn't being treated right. I would hear my mom's voice in my head saying she doesn't like the way he treats me and it would crush me inside, because our family was close so that hurt too. When I got sick of being in a bad place it was eventually over. All you can do is hug her and give her all the love she deserves. I know it breaks your heart but have faith in how you raised her and faith that she will come around. I'm so sorry (

floating candles, floating orchids or flowers to match your colors, some kind of colored bead/pearls that float . . .and there's always balloons...lol

The only bouquets we had were for me any my moh (corsage for mom). I also didn't want to pay that much per bouquet for my BMs flowers and didn't even look into other options. In the end nobody noticed as that place is darn floral naturally. Look here though, Edna shared this list of PV florists: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...s-pv-area.html

Quote: Originally Posted by Sarah Fantastic job. One of the best reviews so far. Definitely!

That's great!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lorilou I have a photo like the Sphinx photo...so fun!! LOVE IT!!!! Might I add you're in the perfect outfit for exploring in Egypt..lol

I love the procrastination one....thanks for sharing )

Thanks, I used Prints Made Easy. I got 100 glossy double sided for $29 (the back was a reminder to rsvp to our initial STD). You can make your own or use templates. It was a lot of fun to do and they shipped really fast. Business Cards & More at PrintsMadeEasy.com

Quote: Originally Posted by Heidi Apparently the dresses we're looking at are popular. That might be why it's a longer estimate too... These are the 4 I think we're getting (in case anyone was wondering!). I just picked the color & they are picking whichever style they want: David's Bridal - Bridesmaids, Dress Detail David's Bridal - Bridesmaids, Dress Detail David's Bridal - Bridesmaids, Dress Detail David's Bridal - Bridesmaids, Dress Detail CUTE! I love how they are different!

My BM dresses were from their ready to wear collection so I was told those are ready faster. My BMs were all over too. One in L.A. didn't have time to go, ordered it over the phone and paid $15 to have it shipped to her house. She got it in about 6 weeks, no problem. One in New Orleans got hers in about 4 weeks but needed it altered. They're right - don't do it there. Her $120 dress cost her $250. Two other BMs had issues with the particular location. The dresses took 3 months and when they came in one was snagged and one had a spot on it! They had to go through corporate (if you can believe that) to get it resolved. In all, it took almost 4 months for them. To be absolutely safe give them 4 months. Which dress did you pick?

When I made my postcard I did a google image search and got some pics that printed great. Unfortunately I didn't save them ( This is a blurry pic and the color is off, but here is basically how mine turned out:

I'm sorry I missed this before, but outstanding review!! The honeymoon banner brought me back to Dreams..well PV Dreams, but it's the same banner. Love your pics of everything, your suite was gorgeous! Congrats on a beautiful wedding )

Okay I think it's official...the ROR brides have taken over...lol I love it!

Welcome and happy planning!

Very cool!

Quote: Originally Posted by Mrs.B 2008 I haven't been to any of the Hawaiian Islands but wanted to join this thread so i can see all the responses since we are getting married on Molokai and trying to decide on which other Island to have our HM. BTW - you are so lucky you have family living there!!!! I hope we get a lot of info! I love having family there, but if I went to another island without seeing them I would never hear the end of it...lol Quote: Originally Posted by bre I lived on O'ahu for five years in Kane'ohe and Honolulu (Nu'u'anu Valley). Both were great places to live. Lani'kai is really pretty too and Kai'lua is a fun little town. But absolutely adore Kaua'i, especially Hana'lei Bay. IMHO, there is no spot on earth more beautiful and serene. I would recommend it without hesitation to anyone. I used to visit family there about one a month and it is a place you never tire of. Try to avoid going in the winter months though, when it's rainy. Thanks Bre, how cool that you lived there. I went to a picnic at the beach/park in Kai'lua last time I was there as a chaperone for my little cousin's field trip. Her sister's was the next day at Magic Island. Sure beats the field trips we had where I grew up...lol You aren't the first person who has told me Kaua'i is the favorite. Hmmm....

Ocean City sounds cool! Wherever you end up I agree you must make use of your starfish stuff, even if you have to steal sand from a playground and make a banquet hall into a beach...lol

Please do!

These adults need a lookout, that's one snooping kid! Too funny

No problemo, let us know how it turns out )

Morgan that picture sounds cool )

My Hawaiian family lives in Diamond Head so I go to Oahu. My favorite place is Lanikai...so pretty! Next time we want to try another island. I may have to go to see the fam before I can skip to another island, but I am determined to get off Oahu...lol Where have you been? If you've been to more than one island how do they compare?