Trisha, I am so sorry that you are having to deal with all of this right now. I agree with everyone, you need to take your time and think things through and decide what is best for you. You have lots of options and one of them will be the right one for you. Please do what is best for you and do not listen to what others say. When my little sister got pregnant at 19, people tried to convince her to have an abortion, I told here I would be there for her no matter what. She kept him and is very happy and he is her world and her joy. I also have a friend who decided to have an abortion when she got pregnant at 27. I went with her to get her abortion (father would not talk to her when she told him) and it was the best decision for her and she is very happy that she made that choice (happy is the wrong word, but she is glad she did not decide to have the baby). So it is different for everyone. There are other girls on here who can relate and help you through this, please take advantage of the words of advice they have to offer. I wish you all the best.