Tammy, I understand about being uncomfortable. No offense taken. But, I think you'd feel more comfortable with a guy doing these types of photos if you met him first. Where as with a girl, you don't feel like you would have to meet her. Completely normal. Keep in mind, there are many guys who do this type of work and are also very good at it. I'm just as professional and work in the same way any girl would for this type of shoot. Every girl I've shot with has said afterwards how comfortable they felt and appreciated that.
So, don't completely rule it out. I'm very close so it would be very easy to set up and just get together to meet sometime. You could always bring a girlfriend with you which would help.