Well, let me see what I can remember:
Dinner (for 200) - $ 17,000 (includes dj, 3 course dinner and uncorkage fee)
Photography - $ 1,500
Honey moon - $ 2,300
Flowers - ?
OTTs and favors - $ 600
Cake - $ 1,000 (but will probably be a gift from some aunts)
Drinks - $ 2,200
Video - Gift
Lounge furniture - $1,000
STDs - $ 150
Invitations - $600
Ceremony (if I do it at the marriott) - $1,000
Webpage - $50
Total $27,400
plus, dress ($2500) wed bands ($1300)