We're planning to pay for everything ourselves, however his mom has said she'd help somehow (she has offered to pay for his suit), my parents have offered several times to help, but they've helped enough by letting me live at home rent free My bro has also offered some money (his I really don't mind taking since all of my SIL's family will be attending 9 adults- 3 kids, haha!)
none have given us an actual figure, but we are not depending on this $$.
We gave ourselves almost 2 years to save before the wedding. So far we've paid about $6000 so far on deposits for our location, band, photog; i orded about 200 starfish, 150 shot glasses with our logo..
and we've saved and additional $8000 so far. Phew... my god, this is the first I've totaled these up!
And like Christine, we are having a large wedding - anywhere between 150-200 ppl..