listen, the moderators of this forum (which is free to you, I want to point out) do so during their free time. we are busy career women, working mothers, stay at home moms, etc. ... we are not paid, we choose to do this job because this forum means a lot to us and was a great resource for us when planning our weddings. we do our best, but we likely miss things along the way (apparently Sonya’s post, and likely others). you can simply use the "report this post" if you see something that you think breaks a forum rule. I suggest you take some of your free time to familiarize yourself with the rules before complaining about them again.