same here. we have way more than we'd ever need to furnish a house. we originally didn't plan on registering at all. but then when FMIL and FSIL insisted on throwing me a shower, I knew people, especially the "older" generation, would want to buy gifts. so then we decided to register for a few things. we mostly did "upgrade" stuff, or the fun, decorative stuff you don't often buy for yourself. we figured these people were going to buy us a gift anyway, we may as well give them some ideas. i was really against registering, but we were talked into it. we still say we don't expect gifts, but if they insist, here are some ideas ...