My first vent thread ... AFTER the wedding, and nothing really wedding related. I guess I am doing alright!
I am just cranky right now. So I posted a little note about Leigh's contest on the DW board on The Knot. One person said something about how that was a great opportunity, but that was about it.
I also decided to post something on the local NY boards - and when I went there, there were a few of them (Upstate, NY City, etc.) so I posted on each - I don't know NY or where these places are, or even where Leigh will be! Totally thought I was being friendly and helpful by sharing this contest - I even said in these posts how I had just been married and how great Leigh was, and I'd share my slideshow.
Well, on 2 of the 4 NY boards someone responded all bitchy like - one said "hello vendor" and another said "This is upstate NY which means AT LEAST a two hour drive each way to get to NYC. If your going to spam the boards don't forget NJ, CT and the PA boards " or something similar.
Wow. Excuse me for trying to share something. I was really floored by that for some reason.
My response to that 2nd one was "wow - someone said something about me being a vendor an another NY board too. listen, i am sorry - i thought i was being nice letting people know about this contest. i was just married, and Leigh was my photog (want to see my slideshow?). i don't know NY, never been there - i don't know where she's going to be or where "upstate" NY is. do you know where "uptown" is in Minneapolis? i apologize for trying to share something."
anyway - it just made me realize how nice everyone is here. i never got "hooked" on The Knot like i did here, and now i see why. i know there are nice knotties, a lot of you being some of them, but wow are there some snottie knotties (to use a quote i recently heard, and found rather appropriate). so ...
GROUP HUG!