huh, everyone was keeping it pretty respectful until then. and yes, my "why even bother" was a legit. question (there was no intent, good or bad). just like you might wonder why i didn't want a wedding party, or why i didn't want my wedding at a resort, or why i was willing to spend $$ to fly in a photog when there were plenty in PV, etc. i honestly do wonder why one would 1) bother with a cake they don't intend to eat and 2) go to lots of trouble (and $) to get it to their site. i am pretty sure i am not the only one with that question. you've explained that it's the photo of the cake you're after, so there's the answer. if you don't want differing opinions and/or questions on your choices i suggest you don't post them asking what we think.