VALERIE

My turn! This topic is so funny! I love it! First, the model... Then me...

I have to be a little different! I voted for #5 - I really like the way it's cut on top, and it still has the overlay and gathering that is very flattering. You are going to be a beautiful bride, no matter which gown you choose!

I would recommend the OOT bags! We actually delivered them to everyone's room the night that they got there. It made it convenient to thank everyone for coming as well! I think I spent less than $10 per bag and had one per room - just FYI

I would recommend asking the wedding coordinator at the hotel. We had to have 4 witnessess, all have to be in Mexico for the same length of time (3 days for our resort). However, I do know that different resorts have different rules. We only had 2 witnesses from our group that could make the trip in that timeframe. Then we "bought" the other 2 witnesses from the resort. They were $20 a piece, cash. It was funny in the end though. The two witnesses were (1) the wedding coordinator and (2) the staff member that repeated the ceremony in English.

We did our invites like this... Valerie XXX and Casey XXX Are happy to announce their upcoming marriage on the twenty fifth of January two thousand and seven Please join them for a Tropical Wedding Celebration on Saturday, the third of February two thousand and seven at six-thirty in the evening XX Location XX There are many different ways that you could word yours. I hope this helps or at least gives you some ideas of where to go from here!

Quote: Originally Posted by sydskyga We were considering doing this, but I think that our party might be 2 big to pull if off instead of doing a coctail reception and a buffet after that.... How may guests did you have?/ We had a group of 22 - 20 adults, 2 children. We didn't do the cocktail reception either. We just went to one of the bars! I think you're idea for the cocktails and buffet is great! How many are going in your group?

Quote: Originally Posted by sydskyga great wedding review! It sounds like you were satified for the most part....if it matters at all, you looked wonderful!!!!! I'm with you on the idea of paying extra for a dinner at an all inclusive...I'm having a really hard time with that one! But I realize that we are really paying for the service i guess...But, you said it worked without paying extra!! There was just no way that I was paying $15 per person for service. It did work just fine. I ordered everyone's food prior to even getting to Mexico (which allowed me to Google all of the dishes to figure out what they were!. The waiters just kept bringing the food out and getting everyone's drinks. They even cut up the remaining cake and served that for me as well. I'm not sure what else we could have gotten if we paid, but noone seemed to figure out the difference.

First, I have to apologize for not being as quick getting to this as some of you newly married gals out there! Sorry! I hope the detail and length of my review makes up for it!!! Needless to say, I had my share of things happen to us... but all I kept thinking the entire time was 2 pieces of advice you gals gave me Travel: Casey and I (along with my Matron of Honor and her husband) flew out the day before all of our guests. We flew to Chicago and then direct to Cancun. Like others, I highly recommend finding the direct flight to eliminate much of the hassle! Also, I did get the advice to carry-on my dress and Casey's suit in garment bags. I am going to go against the grain and tell you that it is just as easy to pack it carefully in some sort of suitcase or something to carry it on in. The garment bags of clothes were so much hassle! And the airlines (United) didn't have anywhere for it to go, so I did end up stuffing it in the overhead compartment anyhow. Thankfully, it didn't really wrinkle so it didn't even need to be steamed. Transportation to Resort: When arriving in Cancun, the airport wasn't really busy. We flew through security and customs in less than 30 minutes and were waiting for our transportation to pick us up. We used Lomas Travel (and have in the past), because they are easy to find and get things done. We were loaded into the van and on our way to the resort (we did splurge for the non-stop transfer). However, about 5 minutes down the road we were in a vehicle accident! Ugh! After sitting in the van for about 10 minutes waiting to see what we had to do, they sent another van to come and get us. It felt like a scene straight out of a horror flick... moving everything we had to an unmarked white van and climbing in! By the way - We booked the entire trip through Fare Deals and FunJet Vacations. FYI Allegro Playacar Resort & Spa: The resort looked lovely as we were driving in! To be honest, my hopes going in were not very high, so I was pleasantly surprised! Check-in was chaotic and unorganized. I left VERY frusturated after than, not to mention our rooms were not yet ready. They wanted us to leave all of our things with the bus boys, who would then bring everything up for us. I, for one, was not about to leave our wedding clothes! So, we carried them around until our room was ready 2 hours later. The grounds were beautiful and I loved the little "houses" spaces (rather than the hotel feel)! The hammocks on the decks were wonderful! We spent alot of time on them over the week! The rooms on the other hand left alot to be desired! They were much smaller than I anticipated. We had the upgraded room, which was the exact same room with a better view and a mini frig. The bathroom shower was icky (dirty and grungy) and the room had a distinct spell. Our air conditioner didn't work very well. However, it seemed that all of the rooms were a bit different - some better than others in a variety of ways. The beach is indeed gone. It is filled with sandbags, as well as many of the resorts nearby. We were able to go to the neighboring beach (couldn't use their chairs or anything), but we could frolick in the ocean. Wedding Coordinator (On-Site): Difficult to communicate with Karina via email. There were several times that I had to ask my travel agent to call her (thank goodness she did!) to see what was going on. About 2-3 months prior to the wedding, she finally started to pay attention to me. She did arrange all of the blood tests and paperwork we needed to do the first day we were there. She came to the wedding and helped with whatever needed to be done. In the end, she was fine (I wouldn't have paid any more for her though!) Out of Town Bags: Everyone loved them! I did real simple things like meds, lotions, bandaids, aloe, air fresheners, kleenex, and a note thanking them for being there. I also wrote a little note with everyone's room numbers and stuck that in there as well. I heard tons of good things about this! Dress(es) and Suit(s): I loved our outfits even more in Mexico than I did here! My dress didn't wrinkle at all from the flights and travel and was perfect! I did get heals to wear and immediately sunk into the sand - didn't feel real good on my calfs, but it worked. My matron of honor and I actually changed after the ceremony into formal dresses. Because we had the at home reception the weekend after we returned home, I didn't want to chance spilling or sitting in something. This worked fine other than the waiters and staff didn't know we were the ones who got married. The suits were perfect. They didn't get too hot and actually ended up wearing them the entire evening. Private Lobster Dinner: The night before the ceremony, Casey and I had a 5 course Lobster dinner on our balcony. This was also part of our package. Very romantic, but the food sucked. We ended up hitting the buffet after the dinner! HA! Spa Appointments (On-Site): The afternoon of the wedding, Casey and I both had massages, manicures and pedicures at the on-site spa. This was part of our package, and we both loved it! It was something we would have never done if we would have had the traditional wedding back home. Then my Matron of Honor and I had our hair done. Depsite the lack of communication, I liked my style there better than the one I had done back home! They really did a nice job! Ceremony: I forgot to ask anyone to be an usher, so everyone just kind of sat when they wanted to. Didn't work real well, but we made the best of it! I really didn't like the hotel staff person reading the ceremony (after the Spanish judge said it). Nothing meant the same thing and she read it so no emotion and wasn't very loud. I wish I would have just had someone from our family read it or made sure the judge could do it in English. Oh - I couldn't justify the cost for the videographer, so I asked two of our guests to bring along their cameras. We set up those two plus mine, and ended up with some great footage that we'll cut together! We also used a CD for music - no band. We didn't have a dance or anything either. After dinner, we headed for some more cocktails and then the nighttime show. Everything else went really well! I loved the whole thing! We did have to rush through photos before we lost daylight, though. I wish the wedding would have been at 4 instead of 5 p.m. to make the most out of the daylight. Cocktail Hour and Dinner: We just made reservations for our group at the on-site Mexican restaurant. I didn't get the "private service" because I wasn't about to pay the extra money at an all inclusive resort. Can me cheap, but it worked just fine! We were all able to eat at the same time, but for the benefit of the staff - I had to choose the menu prior to going. People didn't like that they didn't have the choice, but most were fine with my choices. Flowers: I loved my flowers in the end! It was alot of hassle to get to that point though! I had white lillies and stargazer lillies in our bouquets. We also had two detachable pink roses that I gave to the mothers as I walked down the isle. SO glad I did this!!!!!!! The flowers at the ceremony site were chosen a few months prior to the wedding. She gave us 4 or 5 choices to choose from. Cake: Again, we just did what came with the wedding package. When we had our meeting with the WC when we got to Mexico, we had the choice of filling and cake. I chose my husband's favorite - white with strawberry filling and it was absolutely wonderful! Photographer (On-Site): I really hated the fact that she wore jeans and a slightly see-through white shirt. There are some points in the video and on other photos where she's in the background, and it just looks aweful! She did take some good photos, and I was very pleased in the end. We received a very cool album, 24 or so 4 x 6 photos and 1 8 x 10. We also got the negatives back, which are in getting reprints as I type right now! I have more photos in my profile! Take a look! Also, remember that we did have an at home reception when we returned. So, we decided to forgo things like favors and decorations in Mexico (because we did that back home).

Quote: Originally Posted by lambert13 A tropical weight wool is very very light also and will not wrinkle quite as easily as linen. Cotton is another option as well. We found a Calvin Klein suite at Younkers at the close of this past season. I think we paid less than $150 for it! I did, however, have to get on the phone and call all over to find the right sizes for the guys. That's what we get for waiting until 2 weeks before we left! HA! Like Jason mentioned, it was a light weight wool. The suit didn't wrinkle at all on the trip down, and Casey said he was very comfortable in it in Mexico. Oh, they also wore black long sleave shirts and a very cute tie all from Younkers. The tie was shades of burgundy, and also had taupe and black in it to "tie" all the colors together.

Quote: Originally Posted by kay726 I was looking to find some unique ideas for my aisle runner. Does anyone one have any good pictures. Our resort had a couple of options already lined up for us - (1) Red aisle runner and (2) Aisle lined with huge starfish on each side I went with the starfish for the simple fact that our ceremony was on the beach and I thought the sand all over the nice red runner looked tacky.... plus I had a starfish theme.

Quote: Originally Posted by Soon to be Mrs. Hull oh Valerie, thanks for noticing my typo, that would have been really bad to send it out without notcing that. No problem! That's what I'm here for!

These are so cute!!!! Great job!

Quote: Originally Posted by Soon to be Mrs. Hull I have been looking at the prices of invites, and since I will be sending out just over 100 invites and I already bought these I figure I will try to dress these up somehow. What do you ladies think, does this look tacky? Christine - You did a great job! I love the colors and the monogram! I have two suggestions or questions (1) In the line.... "request the honour of your presence of" - I don't think the "of" is necessary. Just wondering - use or toss (2) The ribbon is a bit big in the first sample, so great job changing it!!!! Here's another option of how to tie the "bow".

Welcome!!! We are glad you are here... your insights will be great and we love to give advice! Happy Planning!

Quote: Originally Posted by riubride WHAT!? the witnesses also have to be there 3 days prior to the wedding I thought it was only the bride & groom b/c of the blood test thing. OMG, I don't need this stress!! We ran into the same thing. I need 4 witnesses and only 2 of them are coming out with us a day early to abide by the 3-day rule. I now have to "purchase" two more witnesses for $20 each from our resort! HA!

I think it depends of the resort to some extent. We have to be there for 3 days, and the day of travel does count for us. Another thing to note if you are having guests, the witnesses also have to be there for the 3 days prior to the wedding (or whatever your hotel has as a rule).

We officially fly out on Monday morning at 6 a.m.! AHHHH Only 5 more days until we leave!

I have posted more recent photos of the resort (December 2006 to present) in the following thread, if you are interested! http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t2425

The attached document has the photos of the wedding ceremony locations available at the Allegro Playacar. The locations include the beach area, gardens, cenote, and the "poles" area. My favorite is the beach......with the poles coming in at a close second! Attachment 307

Here are a few photos that I have just received from the Allegro Playacar Wedding Coordinator, Karina. Please note that these photos are recent as of Dec 2006 (after the tidal surge), so you will see that much of the beach is gone.

No, it is not "technically" negotiable from my experience with Karina (Allegro Wedding Coordinator). You can add as much as you want, but can't take anything out of the package.

I get all of mine from Mary Kay. Talk to a rep and they should be able to give you a whole bunch of samples.... maybe even enough to use as a trial and at the wedding, so you don't have to buy any. It's worth a shot! I also use their eye primer. It is a good gaurantee that the color's don't run.

Thanks Tammy! I revamped a bit and sent these as two different emails. I sent the first one 3 weeks prior to departure and the second email 2 weeks prior to departure! Thanks again!

Any other sample programs ladies?

I know it doesn't help right now, but we are getting married at the Occidental Allegro Playacar on January 25th. I'll be sure to let you know how the wedding portion goes for sure and give any advice that I can!