This is what she said.
I am very happy to know you already have reserved DJ, guitarist, florist, photographer, and mariachi band but the hotel is not responsible for those vendors since we did not contracted them directly through the hotel.
Please be sure to coordinate everything with them: locations for florist, DJ, schedule etc…since I will not be able to help you on that.
They will have to know where to go the day of the wedding. Please confirm everything will be taken care of.
Not rude or anything, but still not very helpful either. Again, she never offered me vendors before, and as you say hotel vendors are more expensive to begin with.
I know that DJ Ricardo asked for her information so that he can go there before hand and look at the space. I'm not sure she will be ok with that.