This kinda happened to me, but I work with awesome people so it turned into a joke. I only invited 1 person from work - and she's the one everyone in the office would expect me to invite bc we hang out a lot. So, my boss asked if he was invited to the wedding and I instantly said NO! It was funny how quick my response was. So everyone started joking about how fast my response was. Now all my bosses joke about how they are going to crash the wedding and just happen to schedule vacas to cabo the same time as my wedding.
I can't believe that girl told you it hurt her feelings. Is she 6 years old?