To change your screen name, on the top of your screen click vbPlaza Menu, then vbPlazaMain, then scroll down to "username options". You can change the color, add italics or bold, add a "glow", and all sorts of stuff. I did italics, color, and glow. They cost points, but you have alot so you can pretty much buy anything you want! The only thing I didn't know how to do was choose a color, because you just have to type in the color that you want. But, yesterday Nabumbah posted a thread called "bold, italicized, and underlined text" where she explained how to use these techniques, including color in our posts. She put all the colors in one of her replies, so I just looked until I found the colors I wanted, and typed them in. Be careful because it looks like some show up better than others. To get to that thread, click Best Destination Wedding Forum > BDW General > Forum News & Updates > Bugs, issues or "how to" navigate forum questions.
Have fun- I can't wait to see what you pick!