We are having a legal ceremony in Cabo. I thought thats what we both wanted but I was telling Kevin how Karla got married @ the courthouse before leaving and he says lets just get married now, i can't wait! But we both know that can't happen cause our parents would kill us! I am the first daughter and he is an only child so thats not really an option. The only good thing with the insurance is we both work for the county and they recognize domestic partners, so we are already on each others insurance.