OK this is going to sound really mean, But in all honestly after the wedding I would prefer everyone left. Cain and I are staying longer because we are honeymooning there as well. There is a couple people staying the full week, but we told them in advance that we may just keep to ourselves and just do things on our own. But their may be days that we will still hang out. This is "our" vacation/wedding/honeymoon and the last thing we want is to be forced in entertain everyone while were there. Yes we will have a few events set up if they choose to attend, but were going to do what we want, if they want to come along, great. If not, that's fine as well.