Trust me Sarah I have "decortive" candles that I don't burn and I have ones that I do. However with that said Cain harps on me saying "Why can't we light that candle again? So it's more the men I'm worried about. That's all us women need to deal with.. Picture this.
The guy does something wrong, decides he needs to make it up to you,, well his only thought is s*x (cause they think its the cure all) so he lights a ton of candle (even your favor) and next thing you know the women comes home to her bedroom that caught of fire... Come on,, you know it can happen.. lol