It sounds like you have a really good start, if your already talking to Juan then at least you can work with him on dates he has open. IMO I would narrow down a few dates, then confirm both Juan and the resort have that date open. Once that is done, you will have time to just relax and enjoy your engagement longer. I was so excited to look for dresses, so that's something you can always do. Budget is another big one if you and Donnie are paying for it yourself. write of list of EVERYTHING you need and then set an amount for each, then once you wake up from passing out at the total the buget came to, look at it again to see if their is anything you can cut back on.. :-)