So my FMIL calls my fiance the other night and told him, a guest that his mother wanted to invite to our AHR called last night to ask if she could bring herself and 2 other guests. Even though the invition was addressed to Mrs X and guest. I couldnt believe that this person actually had the nerve to call and ask if she could bring another guest.
It really makes me mad for many reasons:
1. I dont even know the lady, she is my FI Mom's friend but they havent talked in like 5 years
2. My parents are paying for the dinner. His mother has not even offered to pay for her guests
3. It kind of makes my mad that his mom would not say no, that she is now putting it on us to look bad. She really has no idea how much this wedding is costing
4. This is a bad reason, but this guest came to my bridal shower and she got my the cheapest and uglest gift ever!
Then I had another guest send back their reply card and under the # attending she put 3!!!! I was like dont people understand when its addressed to Guest it only means 1!!!!!
So do you think its rude if I get my FI to tell his mom to call her and tell her that we want to keep #'s down, so she can only bring one guest?
Sorry girls kind of long, but its really bugging me!
Sarah