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I'm debating the same issue. I think I'm leaning toward the buffet, because of the increase in choices for my guests and because they have 2nds or 3rds if they would like. Originally, I wanted to do the sit down/plated meal, because some of the weddings I've gone to that had buffets always had long lines and it took forever to get my food. But, I don't think I'm going to have this issue, because I'm not expecting 100s of guests (or even 100 guests). I also liked the more formal idea of being served. When I was at the Sheraton, I thought the buffet looked nice. They had large candles around the serving plattters. It certainly didn't look bad or cheesy...not like a country BBQ. When you narrow down the location (if you haven't already), you could always ask the event planner/coordinator to send you pics of the buffet. That might help you decide.

Welcome Sara, I'm not really great with forums and how they work either, but if you have trouble someone is always willing to help you. I've had to ask for help myself on a few occasions. There is a ton of great info here!! Let us how we can help you!! Happy planning!!

So, I took my dress to my BM's house this weekend and had her take some pics of me in it. For the life of me, I can't post the pic in the message. I keep getting an invalid file error (and I did try resizing the pic...hmm). Anyway, here is a link to the pic.. hopefully this works. I'm holding the dress in the back because it needs to be altered. And, as mentioned in a previous post, I'm still looking for just the right padded, push-up bra! IMG_1932.jpg - Image - Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

I'm getting married at the Sheraton. I didn't even consider Dreams. The Sheraton had special meaning for my FI and me, so this is why we chose this resort. I've been working with Irma too. As Tammy mentioned above, she is not a WC, but an events coordinator. She is a bit slow at responding to emails, but does eventually get back to you. Like Tammy, I also hired an outside WC. I wasn't going to at first, but then realized that I wanted to make sure that the entire day went smoothly, so for the peace of mind I hired a WC. The Sheraton is going to be more expensive for you in terms of food and beverage as it is not an AI, but because of the this the rooms are less expensive for your guests. This is also why I didn't choose an AI. I wanted to keep the cost down on the nightly rate for our guests. But, some brides would argue that in the end an AI is less expensive, and when all is said and done they are probably right. There is a thread with cost/menu/set up information for the Sheraton. Here is the link, in case you haven't seen it yet... http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t1121 Hope this helps.

Jen ~ The pictures you've posted so far are great! I love the dress! You two look beautiful!! Can't wait to see more and read your review!

Welcome!! We're here to help you!! Happy planning!!

Welcometo the forum!! You'll find some great ideas and advice here. Looks like Sarah and Christine have got you thinking in the right direction!!

Hi Andrea, Welcome (or welcome back) to the forum. Glad you decided to post and say "Hi". Let us know how we can help you!!

Quote: Originally Posted by KARLA Oh gotcha... sorry girls, I assumed e-mail for some reason. We barely had any interaction with him. We did not hire him to show up at the rehearsal. So when I walked up to him and Tim at the wedding, it was the first time I saw him. He was very professional, showed up in a full suit, etc... He was very nice and we talked to him a bit after the wedding was over. I really have no complaints... I feel bad for Danielle, I really hope that was an unfortunate isolated incident. I'm glad to know that your experience was very good. I also hope that what happened with Danielle was an isolated incident. When I talked to him this thought never crossed my mind....he always seems so on top of his game. Thanks for the input!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Natalie M Karla, when I talked with him via phone he told me that he doesn't do email. He doesn't know how or something like that. Some other wedding planning company checks his emails for him and relays the info. I called him again and spoke with him and he did have our date confirmed still Who knows! Did you like him? He told me the same thing and gave me a local San Diego phone number to call to reach him.

Welcome! You came to the right place for help and advice! Everyone here is really nice. Good luck with the planning!! Let us know how we can help you!

Welcome!!

Congratulations!! Welcome home!! Can't wait to read your full review and see pics!!

Quote: Originally Posted by LUVEDALWAYSI Ok so I got married on Saturday January 13. I plan on writing a review about the whole thing I promise! But one thing I had to say sooner than later was what happened with our ORIGINAL minister. We booked Scott Parsons months ago and have had plenty of contact with him since over the phone and on the internet. We had sent him the ceremony that we had written a week before we left for Cabo so he was well aware of the time and day of our wedding. Our wedding planner (Tara from Sunset Weddings wonderful by the way!) had been trying to get ahold of him for a few days and heard nothing. The wedding day rolls around and he is nowhere in sight. He never showed. So we had to find a new minister within an hour who turned out to be absolutly fantastic!!! But because of him, our wedding didn't start on time and we had to push it back almost two hours. We had to pay all the catering staff overtime hours which added up to alot!!!! The mariachis could only stay an hour because of another engagement, so my husband and I totally missed them completely because we had to take pictures before the sun went down, which we also didnt want to do because we didnt want to see eachother before the wedding but we had no choice. Two days later on Monday a letter is dropped off at the hotel by Scott Parsons basically apologizing and saying that he had a high fever and was delerious and thought our wedding was on Sunday instead of Saturday. But he never did show up on Sunday for the wedding that he "thought" was that day, and we could not get ahold of him for days before the wedding either. He was not in the hospital or anything either. So pretty much...he forgot. I love all you girl and hope that you love your wedding as much as I loved mine (even with this), and I would never want this to happen to anyone else. If you want my advice, DONT BOOK HIM, and if you already have booked him CANCEL!!! Thank god there was another minister who was able to get there in time or even at all! Please take my adivce I don't want anyone else to go through this. Danielle Incontro Thanks for the head's up!! That is horrible!! Now I must decide what I'm going to do, since I've already booked him....hmm..

I just bought the Barre Method series... http://www.amazon.com/Method-Body-2-...?ie=UTF8&s=dvd It isolates muscles and gives you longer leaner muscles like a dancer. I like it. It's not yoga or pilates, but certainly not arobic either. ...I wanted to buy the fluidity bar. Anyone tried it? www.fluidity.com I saw it on an infomercial, but haven't bought it yet...I'm afraid it will just collect dust.

I want to know how I missed all of the December posts in this thread! It must have been because of the holidays?? TammyM, could the pic possibly be of the new spa?? hmm....looks very pretty! I don't remember seeing it while I was there either.

Quote: Originally Posted by leigh miller you know it! crisis management is my middle name. i dont know why but this reminds me of that part in thank you for smoking when the main character says - i have a BA in taking names and kicking ass. i can do that too when needed You go girl!! Keep those brides and grooms (and their families too) in line!!

Hi Amy, Welcome to the board!! You'll find lots of great info here! I'm getting married in Cabo, so I'm not much help in regard to Cancun questions, but you'll find quite a few invitation ideas here and many other helpful ideas and tips. Happy Planning!!

Christa, congrats on getting your invites out! They look fantastic! ...I'm going to start mine soon...I know it is going to be a BIG job. How great to get 2 replies so quickly...I hope the rest of them roll in soon too!

Wow! Those are great!! Congrats on getting them finished!! Will be looking forward to seeing your invites!!

Quote: Originally Posted by leigh miller before i became a fulltime photographer i was a therapist. worked a lot with clients on their irrational fears. comes in handy while working with brides - ba - dump -da!!! (wheres that smiley with the drums when you need him?) I bet that therapy background also comes in handy while actually photographing weddings!! ....not so much in regard to irrational fears, but other (perhaps unexpected) issues!!

Quote: Originally Posted by LALA This thread is cracking me up for some reason. Can you imagine having your dress stolen then seeing someone in the lobby wearing it? Saying things like "No, this is mine. I brought it from home. I like to wear it to lay out." I'm obviously exhausted from the week. Too funny!!! The thought of having my dress stolen or damaged has never crossed my mind.....I think I'm not going to worry about this...too many other things to think about! Thanks Leigh and Tammy for putting our worries at ease!

Janet, Thanks for the info! It looks like so much fun!! Have to keep it in mind!

Welcome~ Good luck with your planning!! You'll find lots of helpful info here!

Welcome Christine! You'll find lots of info on this site. Everyone here is super friendly and helpful...Let us know if we can help you!!