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Quote: Originally Posted by NABUMBAH Hey Drea, just FYI I don't believe that the SA courthouse is open on the weekend. oh ok...then we'll do it the day before we leave

UPDATE: So Yesterday I'm at my mom's afterwork planning decorations and food for wedding dinner, when I get a call from Erik. He says,"Soooooo, I got a surprise call from my mother and she says,'So do we need to get our tickets now?' Then she goes on about how my father told her that we are just getting married in Cabo in July. What did you tell my father? Now she is upset....I didn't tell her anything beacause I didn't know what you said to my father exactly.....I just changed the subject." I told Erik that I told his father that we were THINKING about it but nothing was definate (sp?). Well Erik then went on to say that I put my foot in my mouth and that I didn't tell him everything and that his parents aren't stupid and would figure it out..... I told him i'm glad that they figured it out. That it would give us a chance to tell them that we want to have wedding in Cabo and tell them that we only want these people there. Erik then starts saying "I don't want to talk about it" and I say "You never want to talk about it." So we'll see what happens this Sat. at dinner....

You're cracking me up....LOL So we've decided to do legal ceremony here in O.C. We are going to do it the day before our flight or even the weekend before. So much easier..... Then have ceremony in Cabo. I'm so excited!!!

Welcome back Jessica....Congrats on being a Mrs....

hey, I actually liked the tie choker and was going to ask you where you got it

I'm going to drive over to JCrew and check out their selection....

Quote: Originally Posted by A10CALGAL Yep, I agree w/Tasha - you definitely need a shoe, but don't go nuts with it. I ended up going barefoot most of the day & slipped on my flip flops for bathroom trips. I wore these (sorry, the dress takes up most of the pic!): Christa....can't see them?

Quote: Originally Posted by NABUMBAH jcrew. I thought you could see that on the shoe, so I didn't post oh duh.... sorry I wasn't looking...now I see it....

Quote: Originally Posted by NABUMBAH After spending $$$ on my 'wedding' shoes, I ended up wearing these on my wedding day I have them in silver, and gold. I wore the gold on my wedding day. I wear them constantly now that the wedding is over. I believe that they were $50 Tasha, where did you get them?

ohhhh good idea girls....Thanks Kash I'll check nordstroms rack later today.

Erik is going to surprise me with his outfit

i was thinking about that...but my mom wants me to buy shoes just incase. Also I would have to walk to restaurant when we get there and what about bathroom? YUK

very cute...love the shiney background

ok girls so I'm going to have my dress altered this week...I will post a pic of me in dress once I get home.... but I need shoes..... the ceremony is going to be on the beach and the dinner will be on the beach also. We are having everything at Baja Cantina.... so everything is on beach... I was thinking flip flops but not sure....and can't find nice ones.... Mind you the dress is champaign color help

oh yeah I forgot to mention, I took pictures of me in my dress yesterday after picking it up. I haven't tried this dress on since I bought it....and mind you it was big on me when I did buy it...well not that big. Anyways...I tried it on last night and it fits perfectly, though it's a bit long, so I'm just going to have seamstress shorten it a bit... Yes, I'll show pictures when I get my usb cord from home LOL

so my mom has bought her tickets along with my dad's and my two nephew's. She has already gotten her timeshare for the week of July 22-29. LOL The get to be in Cabo for the whole week while Erik and I get to be in Cabo for 4 days...not fair...oh well, we will go on a really vacation later when Erik has vacation time. Yeah, this weekend should be exciting....I didn't stay with Erik last night but slept over at my parents (had to work in her area and didn't want to drive from Costa Mesa to Mission Viejo in the morning (about a 45min drive with Traffic)). So I'm not sure if Carol found out that I kind of told Mike (does that make any sense) and decided to call Erik.....Erik hasn't said anything to me. I realy think he should mention it to his folks this weekend when we are at dinner....somehow I know it is going to be a topic of conversation.... oh yeah we are going to be in LA....so if anyone wants to meet up for drinks afterwards, great....pm me. I'm going to need a drink after dinner LOL

i agree great list paula

AHHHHHH Sarah, Came over to my mom's house and immediately logged on to her computer..... I LOVE THE PICS.... I was smiling throughout the whole show.... you guys looked very sexy Loved them

Quote: Originally Posted by LadyP MEMEMEMEMEEEEEEE as I sing. GOOD let him call. this is your wedding and she will get over it. She has no say if she is not paying. She can call the world if she wants. Do they know where you will be staying. If they come tell the waiter that they are not on your tab SEPARATE CHECKS please lol Catherine good Idea about the seperate checks for dinner if the relatives crash.... So let's see what happens....

Jamy why did I miss this thread? I'm always on this forum....what's wrong with me? Congrats Mrs. Jones..... Hope your having fun in PV.

Girls, they will be back...if not they have myspace's LOL We will always keep in touch, we are all friends. WE do have to have a big BDW reunion though!

so I got the dress... and E's mom wasn't there. His dad was though and he asked me about San Fran. I said it was good, cold, and that Erik and I are talking about it, haven't decided yet. Well E's Dad all of sudden said that he would be happy if we eloped and if we thought about it. Well when he mentioned this I go ahead and open my mouth and tell him that Erik and I were THINKING about it. I also then go and ask him what he would think if Erik and I just did it on our trip this July? Well he said he didn't mind....then I asked what he would think his wife would say....and he said, " I think you need to talk to Carol and make sure you have all the facts, but I think she would be totally ok with it just as long as you have a party afterwards." Well I said we were just thinking about it and that I would have Erik come with me to talk to her and he says,"no you should tell him and don't be scared, she will understand." So I leave happy and then call Erik and Erik begins to say that I did a bad thing.....That I just set off the bomb.....that his dad was going to call Carol immediately after I had left and his mom would be pissed or she would invite everyone. Which he thinks everyone will come and crash wedding. Oh well....will see what happens....at least it's somewhat out there , so if she calls Erik and says that I mentioned something to Mike and not her....then Erik can explain. I'm going out to dinner with his parents this weekend and his brother and sister-n-law and aunt and uncle......So it will be interesting, (sorry for all the and's) This is such an soup opera....lol

Kash I vote for the Gerbers....due to the fact I'm using the same gerbers and Maye also quoted me $95 for them....While the other flowers I wanted was $150...So I went for the cheaper version,.... Either way you will look beautiful with whatever choice you choose.

Then I'll stay with Maye doing it. I luv Maye, She's been so helpful

Quote: Originally Posted by dragonfly Good Luck, remember to let Erik deal with it. Don't let her rope you into saying anything. If she wants to kick someone's ass it shouldn't be yours. Why do mil think their son's are perfect and then us wicked daughter in-laws get a hold of them. They seem to think we just make all decisions and the men have no say (well okay that is true, LOL). Good Luck once again! Kelly~ Thanks Kelly, I'm not going to say anything...if I do see her (if she went in to work) then I will just tell her that I'm here for the dress....They are going to ask me how San Fran was.....I didn't go.....but Erik didn't tell them I was at home and not in San Fran.... Ugh! So I'm just going to say it was ok and that we are still thinking about it.... SHoot....don't know....