At my shower we played a really fun, non-cheesy game.
Before the party, someone has to put it all together. You cut out pictures of brides from bridal magazines, and then pictures of celebrity faces from People, USWeekly, etc and then put the celeb faces ONTO the bridal model's faces. (Even like Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, etc were "brides") Then you number them 1-20 or whatever, and give people a little worksheet to fill out who the celeb is.
It's fun because all of the young people will get it, all of the old ladies know like 3 of them, and nobody is put on the spot or embarrassed. Just make sure to throw in one or two really tricky ones. It's the least cheesy bridal shower game, and it really is kinda fun....I swear!
( I hope my explanation of the game made sense...by brain is feeling like mush right about now!)