I think it depends on a lot of things, really. For us, I enjoy just being married and sleeping in and traveling and all the things you do less of when you have a kid, so I don't mind waiting. Also, we just bought a house and we really do not have the financial freedom to be having kids and not freak out about the bills. Also, we are far away from my mom and I always pictured having her there to help...so it's a lot of things. But someday hopefully all of those will go away and we will be READY! In the meantime I just try to spend time spoiling my friends' kids and my new baby goddaughter