less guests =less $$ (YAY, no need to invite the randoms at work)
mexico is waaayyy cheaper than SF..
$44 per person instead of $120 at home
no $5,000 site fee!
my wedding is in beautiful cabo...so i spent $1100 (or so) on flowers instead of $6000
also, we had a whole week together with multiple events planned:
welcome dinner girls spa day guys deep sea fishing snorkel/sailing trip wedding & reception brunch with the newlyweds
all for $14,000..
just a reg. wedding in sf at an ok place was $30,000+ (my friends all paid $50,000-80,000)