Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan I don't think it always take activities & meals to make it worth a guest's time. I know my guests are just excited to be going to Mexico. If a person didn't feel it was worth coming to mexico with the amount of things we are planning, I'd rather they just not come.
But, I think it's great to throw in things like this. I'm sure it was wonderful & they really appreciated it. If someone isn't planning on doing anything, I still think it can be great.
I wouldn't want to make a big trip to someone's wedding & not get to spend time with them. But, we'll all be at the same hotel. For me it's all about the time together. I don't really care what we are doing. I don't see how we can not have a great time staying at an AI on a beautiful beach. i forgot to add, that is just my co-dependant side...i am the type of hostess that wants everyone to be happy, cover all my bases etc. i have poker parties and the food is always top notch, try to have people to help babysit for the parents that bring their kids etc...just my personality...now my husband, he could care less about all the stuff planned (except deep sea fishing).
i looked at it like this: this was one of the few time all of our friends and family were going to vacation with us and i wanted to make it stick out as an experience of a lifetime...i wanted them to go home thinking "that was the best wedding AND vacation i have ever been to!".